Due to all the negative comments from Tim's family and friends I have no choice but to set my blog to private. If you would like to continue to view my blog to see updates and pictures of Matthew, Michael, Christopher and Daniel please send me your email address. You can send it on facebook or you can email me personally banana_bell@yahoo.com
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
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What's negative? You wont let him see his kids, wont let him buy his house that he's been working so hard to get, and after a very bad accident that left him banged up you wont let him have the insurance money to get a car.
Meanwhile you set in your house with the 4 kids, and drive around in your new van and refuse to cooperate with any of us. Hell you even have the majority of his belongings!
What is it going to take, what is it that you want? Are you just trying to make him suffer? He wont give you that satisfaction. But at least he is trying to cooperate with you. While you are just being stubborn. Nobody has said anything to you that isn't true; but I guess the truth hurts.
I think you're doing the right thing, Aunt Annie. Love you!!
~Katie D.
I'm sorry excuse me; the right thing? By not letting him see his kids?
D thats for Davis right? If I'm not mistaken didn't your brother go through a tough custody battle? You've seen first hand the hurt that this causes, yet you advocate complexity. As much as I know this hurts Tim in the long run it's also not fair to the kids.
Let's all be responsible, here.
Thank you,
Julie Blatt
Ann,
You are doing a great job and you are a wonderful mom! Keep you're chain up and don't let these posters bring you down.
To anomymous,
Is this your business? have you stopped to think there are two sides to every story and you just have Tim's version. What did he do to make Ann so upset? Why did he leave his family and kids? Who takes care of four toddlers day in and day out? no one is perfect, but before you cast blame or criticism, look to see who has the best interest of the boys in mind and who is only out for a good time.
I agree- this is between Tim and Ann- other people need to butt out. But i have to say "anonymous" maybe if you had raised a more honest/faithful son, none of this would be happening. its so easy to point the finger at the other person which is what you are obviously doing.
For your information, MY Son would still be there with his wife and kids if his wife had not turned into such a controlling BITCH. And for you information, I am not the one who has been placing these posts..it is Tim's friends who are sick of the "pity party" that Ann has been putting on. What did she think..that she could try to ruin someone's life and no one would have an opinon about it....WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!!!
TIM'S MOM!!!!!
If what goes around comes around, then I guess your son's new girl will cheat on him!
Sounds to me like you are the one throwing a pity party, but is it for yourself or for your son?!?!?!
It should really be for 4 innocent little children whose father left them, so that he could live the partying single life.
Katie is correct. The right thing to do is make this PRIVATE.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us!
God Bless you and your 4 precious little babies.
and GO CARDS!!!
Thank you for all the support everyone, but I really don't need a blog war. This blog was created to show off my wonderful family for everyone to see. Once again if you would like to follow send me an email, it will be private by the end of the day.
This whole situation is very emotional for everyone involved. It doesn't help to throw bad names at these 4 kids' mother and father. It doesn't do any good to point fingers at anyone. This conversation is a moot point. Everything will be figured out in the court system and hopefully people can remain amicable enough and sensible enough not to spread this hate to the kids. They are so innocent and sweet. Isn't there enough anger, war and hate in the world already?
For the children's sake, don't slander either parent. Take all this negativity and pray that the courts do what is best for everyone and that both parents have the strength to be able to coparent somehow to raise these 4 boys the best they can. God Bless
I may not know the whole story but I do Know Tim's side. He is not dating anyone, or have any girlfriend. Nor is he out parting every night. Hell he doesn't even have a car! The only people that really know what caused this marriage to fail are the people who were in it. Many of you want to yell one sidedness but how many of you have heard his side? Or even acknowledged him since their split. Believe it or not he was a bit hurt by how quickly everyone shunned him. I'm sure he'd give his side if there wasn't some trumped up restraining order filed against him. From the night in which he was given a black eye and beaten up.
I will say this though In the last few months Tim has been trying so hard to get a house that his kids could stay with him in, it all he has talked about; and all Ann has to do is sign off on it, yet she has refused to why? He talks constantly about how much he misses his boys and doesn't get to see them. Divorce can take up to a year, whats this guy supposed to do? He needs his kids and they need him in their life.
He's by no means an angel and he knows what he did was wrong, but how does he repent for that? So far this year I've watched this guy loose his house, and and he's about to loose another, I've seen him in the hospital, I've seen him beaten half to shit by his own wife, I've seen him live though a very terrible car wreck, I've seen him, happy, and also very sad. The guys been though hell. All I'm saying is from what I've seen and heard he just wants to get through this and move on and and do right by his kids. If things were civil I doubt that any one would be posting any thing here.
-Innocent Bystander
Innocent bystander,
You have a lot to say for not knowing the other side.
I can't wait until this is private :)
He cheated on his wife and kids, He gave up any right he had to anything when he gave up on his family. End of story!
So because he slept with another woman 2 months after his wife kicked him out he should just shrivel up and die, and suffer? Grow up. It's not like these two invented divorce.
Your boys are sooooo cute. Enjoy them - they grow up toooo fast!
Ann,
You are a wonderful mother and father too. Those kids could not have asked for a better women in their life. I could never do what you are doing you are the strongest women I know.
Tim's Mom,
I am sorry you son is a loser and can't MAN up and do what he is suppose to do. How is he suppose to watch his kids when all he does is play video games all the time. Oh, wait he never did watch the kids cause he was too busy with his games and his WHORE!! She is not a controling BITCH it seems to me that you are. You have to have some control when you have 4 kids under the age of 2 otherwise it is too crazy. She is both parents here.
Had no idea you were going through such bullshit. Don't let it get to you, Ann, you are a great mother, and you are doing the absolute right thing. Just keep doing what you are doing taking care of those four beautiful boys.
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